How do you not see someone as a burden when they’re your parents? I will never see my mother as someone who is a burden. There are times when she can forget, I have my own life going on. She, at the very least is like any other mother out there. A mother who is delicate, devoted, and has an eye for details other people would miss about her children.
A father who cares more about himself and financial issues is now someone who I will officially see to as a burden. A father who does not understand that there are many things he should at the very least try to do by himself. Asking for help is great but whom is mentoring whom? Whom should be assisting whom? Without the consideration for us, children but plentiful of selfishness and neediness. I will not call it being ungrateful.